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In the world of leadership and personal growth, the ability to ask for what you want is an invaluable skill.

Too often, I meet with people who are struggling (and feeling a little bit resentful) because their boss just can’t mindread what they should know they want or need, no matter how many hints they give.

As a leader, I’m sure you often find yourself at crossroads where clear communication really can make all the difference.

Here are some strategies I’d like to share:

1. Be Clear and Specific: Before you ask for what you want, take the time to clarify your goals and desires. Specifically. It’s essential to have a clear understanding of what you want, versus what you don’t want. Ambiguity seldom leads to successful outcomes. So, when making requests, be clear, concise, and specific. Clearly outline what you need, why you need it, and the desired outcomes. Clarity enables understanding and collaboration.

2. Believe in yourself and your worth. Confidence plays a significant role when making requests. If you don’t believe in yourself and what you want, others might not either.

3. Practice Active Listening: Effective communication is a two-way street. Listen actively to the concerns and perspectives of others. Acknowledge their input and demonstrate genuine understanding. This is connected to empathy.

4. Practice Empathy: Understand the needs and motivations of the person you’re making the request to. Put yourself in their shoes. How does your request align with their goals and challenges? How can it be win-win?

5. Timing Matters: Be mindful of the right moment to ask. Timing can greatly impact the outcome.

6. Fear of Rejection: Don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back. “No” is often just a step closer to a “yes.” At least you know. And it’s just a “no”. What can you learn? How can you move forward to “next”?

7. Express Gratitude: When someone says yes, express genuine gratitude. A simple thank you goes a long way. It strengthens professional relationships and encourages future collaboration.

Asking for what you want is a testament to your assertiveness and confidence as a leader. Embrace this skill, refine it, and watch how it transforms your professional and personal life.

As my best friend always says, “If you don’t ask, you don’t get!”

I encourage you to reflect on your goals, practice the art of asking, and remember that it’s a powerful tool in your journey to success.

If you’d like to explore this topic further and how it applies in your work and life, please reach out.

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